If you know, you know. If you know, I hope you've found a way to recover and feel proud of how you've handled that. If you've gone no contact, that ok. If you've set hard boundaries and it's still not working, you'll figure it out. There's no shame in protecting yourself and you have zero obligation to take part in any relationship that hurts you, blood or not. This badge of honor measures 2.6" x 2.3".